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Prejudices about swinger clubs and relationships with benefits

Feb 18, 2023

There are many prejudices about swinger clubs, and there are also good reasons for that. There is...

Swinger Club vs. Private Swinger Parties

Oct 30, 2021

This blog is written based on our experience in the European countries, as we have no experience...

The story behind secretswingerlust.com

Jun 29, 2020

Why secretswingerlust.com? In 2019 we went on a short getaway. We had decided to try a swinger...

Separation of Sex and Love

Feb 12, 2020

Our thoughts and feelings. To us it has been really important to put into words our thoughts and...

What are the benefits of being a swinger?

Dec 7, 2019

Swinger life is about being honest. The swinger environment is taboo because it does not fit into...

How our journey as swingers began

Nov 22, 2019

Definitely not virgins. We had been lovers for the past 5 years – and we were definitely not...

This Kinda Girl

How to be a smart, sexy swinger

Top 10 Mistakes Made By Younger Swingers

Nov 28, 2021 | This kinda girl

This Kinda Girl social media followpinteresttwitterinstagramTop 10 Mistakes Made By Younger Swingers, we all have to start somewhere in the swinging world and trust me when I say I learnt the hard way! I get a lot of questions sent to me by younger swingers so, in...

Body Confidence When Swinging

Jan 17, 2021 | This kinda girl

This Kinda Girl social media followpinteresttwitterinstagramBody Confidence When Swinging. Recently, I was discussing body confidence with one of my friends, A, who’s a single girl. Although A isn’t a swinger, she’s quite curious about the lifestyle and swinger scene,...