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Why secretswingerlust.com? In 2019 we went on a short getaway. We had decided to try a swinger club abroad and had spent a lot of time finding a suitable club at Google in advance, trying to figure out how to sign up for attending the club. When we finally figured out...

Our thoughts and feelings. To us it has been really important to put into words our thoughts and feelings about being swingers to clarify what it means for our relationship with each other – and what it means for our relationship with others. It has also been...

Swinger life is about being honest. The swinger environment is taboo because it does not fit into the stereotypical monogamous idea of having one partner whom you are loyal and faithful to throughout life. This notion that Swinger life is about infidelity and lack of...

Definitely not virgins. We had been lovers for the past 5 years – and we were definitely not virgins when we first met. At the beginning of our relationship, we spent a lot of time talking about our lives as singles and realized that our sex drives were really high....