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Finding the right fit in the swinging lifestyle can be challenging.

Swinging with others involves compatibility, attraction, confidence and preferences.  It is very much like dating but waaaaay more complicated.  You may have found that the swinging lifestyle can get very challenging to coordinate all four interests at the same time and we hope to provide a bit of insight on the “right fit”. 

 Show notes:

  1. Compatibility
  2. Intellect
  3. Confidence
  4. Physical
  5. Attractiveness
  6. Kissing 4 Dummies
  7. Women Are Gatekeepers
  8. Preferences & Stereotypes

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